Nadezhda Grishaeva: fitness is not scary When launching a fitness club, few people think about the fears and apprehensions when visiting gyms. Sometimes, a fitness center appears to the average individual as an inaccessible place they're not meant to be part of, and some are concerned about critical glances and judgments. It's essential to recognize the psychological aspects of potential visitors to make their gym experience as comfortable as possible. Nadezhda Grishaeva, the founder of Anvil Fitness Club Moscow, told Sostav about the unforeseen aspects of the fitness world. Understanding gym-related fears In English, there's a term, gymphobia, indicating fear of the gym. Another less common term is jimtimidation, a blend of 'gym' (meaning hall) and 'intimidation' — it signifies the anxiety a person feels about entering a fitness club, worried they'll stand out, attracting askew glances. Jimphobia is one of the reasons why individuals are afraid to engage in fitness activities. Often, a fitness center appears to many as some inaccessible place they're not meant to be part of. Before we define and understand gymphobia's roots, it's crucial to differentiate it from gymnophobia. This fear, too, is prevalent among clients and deters them from joining wellness clubs. Yet, it's a distinct fear — gymnophobia is the dread of nudity, the anxiety over being seen naked or undressed. Many harbor complex feelings towards their body and nudity. People's fear levels vary, influenced by different contexts. Some might dread public nudity, like in gym changing rooms, while others might be uncomfortable with the sight of others' nudity. Numerous factors, including religious beliefs, past traumas, or body shame, can influence one's reluctance to be seen naked or to view nudity. Addressing nudity fears is challenging but beneficial for mental well-being and self-confidence. At Anvil Club, how have we tackled this issue? We've installed private shower stalls, offering a space not just for showering but also for changing in privacy. Our king-sized showers were designed for ultimate visitor comfort. For gymnophobia, experts suggest practicing mirror exercises, where you observe and accept your naked reflection. Interestingly, Anvil boasts over a thousand mirrors, not just for self-acceptance but also due to a common trait among bodybuilders: narcissism, which I'll discuss later. Returning to jimphobia, this fear stems from various concerns: uncertainty about gym routines, how to execute exercises correctly, and appropriate behavior, often seen in newcomers; Self-comparison with surrounding individuals, particularly professional athletes; The impression of being observed, discussed, or judged by others. Conquering Gym Fears For a new gym-goer, the gym environment can appear daunting. Some fitness machines are as complex as electric cars. It's natural to feel initial doubts when trying something new. Everyone has probably felt self-conscious at some point, wondering if they're dressed correctly, might look silly, or will manage the session. Such concerns are part of facing the unknown. Remember, even Arnold Schwarzenegger started as a beginner. Every fitness enthusiast was once a novice. I recommend dedicating the first few sessions to learning. Consider working with a personal trainer. Personal training has proven benefits. As the gym becomes a habit, anxiety decreases. The more frequently you visit, the more comfortable you'll become. Not understanding how to operate machines is a typical newbie concern. An initial walkthrough can alleviate this fear. Don't hesitate to ask for assistance from trainers. We provide support for first-timers at Anvil. Comparing oneself to others can be daunting. Noticing someone lifting heavy weights or a bodybuilder's pose might trigger self-comparison. Such comparisons might feel discouraging. My advice is to avoid comparing yourself to others. A third common gym fear is feeling observed. The reality is, most gym-goers are concentrated on their own routines. Judgment from others says more about them than about you. Disregard such worries. Fitness centers offer trial passes and consultations. Join group classes like Pilates or yoga to get familiar and socialize. A modern gym is not just for exercise but also a place for comfort and socializing. Don't be held back by gym fears. Join us at Anvil and embrace your fitness journey. Sports narcissists Know someone who's overly self-assured in their fitness abilities? What about those who can't handle criticism? Ever noticed someone who's loud or seeks attention in the gym? This behavior is indicative of gym narcissism. It involves arrogance, lack of consideration for others, and a need for admiration. A healthy focus on fitness is good, but obsession has its downsides. Balancing one's gym behavior is key to a healthy fitness lifestyle. Narcissism isn't truly about self-love. Sports narcissists can be seen as those overly fixated on their athletic image, yet this obsession is akin to an addiction. They are enamored with an idealized version of themselves, which serves as a shield against their underlying feelings of insufficiency and self-doubt. Are there many narcissists in fitness clubs? Indeed, there are. For a well-rounded individual, physical and mental well-being are aligned, as the saying goes: A sound body houses a sound mind. Dealing with phobias or narcissistic tendencies might require professional help. Hence, incorporating therapy sessions alongside regular fitness routines offers comprehensive self-care.